Monday, April 16, 2012

My Take on The Hunger Games

OK so a blog is a place where you can post your personal opinion about stuff without people getting offended, right? I considered posting on Facebook, but then everyone is kinda sorta forced to read it...here, it is only the people who CHOOSE to stick around and read it. :) Therefore, if you disagree, that's totally fine, but remember...you chose to read it :)

So....the Hunger Games....I had all intentions of boycotting it like I did the Harry Potter Series and the Twilight Series. Basically, I boycotted based on principle. When something makes such a HUGE cultural hit that includes screaming girls and choosing "teams" based on hot guys and magic that isn't related to God's supernaturalness, I just couldn't really relate enough to join the American craze to get involved. I'm sure they were wonderfully entertaining and even had social commentary that was possibly redeeming and deep...not saying that there was anything wrong with any of it or seeing any of it, I just couldn't do it. So, I had kind of the same opinion about the Hunger Games, and yet from everything I kept hearing about it, it wasn't really in the same category as the other two mentioned because it wasn't based on teenage love and it wasn't supernatural...it was something seemingly much deeper and much more sadistic...kids killing kids. When it gets to stuff like that that is controversial on a religious or societal level, I have more interest because I know that I cannot intelligently discuss, agree, or disagree on any points without having seen it first. Kind of like when The Da Vinci Code came through. There was so much discussion about it that I couldn't join in without me seeing it so I went...I am halfway using that excuse for the Hunger Games. The other half was sheer curiosity and the fact that we were invited by people we like to hang out with and Italian food was on the itinerary for the evening. :)

Sooooo.....when the movie was over, I was left with 3 things...I was intellectually stimulated, totally disturbed, and completely disgusted. To be honest, I am AMAZED at how America has reacted to this movie. Now I do understand that the book was probably much better as most books are...there was probably TONS more depth to the booths and take away concepts; however, I think for those who read the book and had the development time of working through the story and creating the scenes in their head, they were probably less shocked by the depravation and shocking events of the movie, but I think that is just called desensitized. Were there redeeming concepts that can be pulled from the books and applied to modern day society? I'm sure the answer is a resounding yes. However, as I was watching the movie, I was thinking "Are you kidding me??! There are kids in this theater? And their parents brought them?!!" I am typically not very negative Nancy about movies because I know the general purpose of them is to entertain and the average American takes them at face value and its your own fault if the movie is bad or disturbing, but I had to know what was so addicting about this movie for America, and I feel like there IS something different about this movie compared to the other action packed shoot 'em up kind of movies. This movie was on a different level in a weird way. It has become a new acceptable level of American screenplay entertainment. The bar has been raised.

As the blood bath occurred at the cornucopia of weapons and when beautiful, innocent little Rue gets stabbed through the stomach with a javelin, and when hallucinative bees left a girl mangled and unrecognizable and when the girl attacks Katniss with knives and when the boy is being eaten alive by monster dogs, I couldn't even watch those parts....and America thinks this is the greatest thing since sliced bread........???

I've been told that our society isn't too far removed from these occurrences. Kids can watch the news every day and see death and destruction. Sex slaves and starvation and acid torture occur worldwide....all of which I agree to - insanity is occurring worldwide. We live in a depraved and evil infiltrated world. However, I'm not sure how admitting that or recognizing that gives any justification of America soaking in the drama or depravity of a fictional story that they are spending money to see. If evil is already forcing its way in, why choose to open the doors and swim in it...or much less choose to allow your kids to be infiltrated by it? Yes children can see it on the news and hear it on the streets, but that's real stuff...why choose to be entertained by it? If that is a legitimate argument that kids are exposed to it daily, let's put cannibalism, torture, and porn into our moviews for 13 year olds and call it reality brought to the big screen. At least on the news, its portrayed as bad.

After the movie, Derrick & I talked through it and I've had a lot of time to think about it today, and I will admit there were redeeming themes in the movie. True love, self sacrifice, unconditional love, intelligent survival techniques, and a few more...and looking back, it is intriguing to think through and generally entertaining on a morbid level, but in general, I left the movie feeling depressed and oppressed. I think two things will come from this movie...the possibly very redeeming result might be that I think there will be a group of kids who recognize important concepts in the movie such as bullying, ganging up, cruelty, and will be able to apply those things to their lives and become compassionate and kind and rooters of the underdog. The fact that Katniss was the heroine and she won the non-traditional way of not having to kill except for those presented as evil was a good thing...maybe kids will learn from it. I think there will be another group of kids who are already vulnerable because of the awful things they have to go through at home and at school who become even more depressed and disturbed who end up bringing guns and knives to school strategically trying to figure out how to kill people. That MIGHT be extreme, but when they happen, don't ask me why when another Columbine or Virginia Tech occurs.

If I had a kid who was 17 or 18ish who I knew was intellectually and emotionally mature enough to work through the movie and come to intelligent conclusions, then of course it'd be their decision to watch it....but I'm sorry, I think that the parents who are TAKING their 11-15 year old kids to watch it are CRAZY! You think a 12 year old is mature enough to correctly handle blood shed and control and manipulation of children who are forced to put on a face for society in order to increase their odds of survival and then train to kill for the sole purpose of not being killed.

In general, I just think that somehow America was psychologically brainwashed into thinking that this twisted, depraved story line was so awesome because all the rest of America thought so....kind of the same way the kids had to mentally flip flop from innocent children to kill or be killed survivalists. The human psyche is quite fickle and can be convinced of anything.

Another thing, I keep hearing that this movie is redeeming because its "anti big government"....maybe. I don't know where the next 2 book story lines go so I can't judge yet, but I have a feeling that it may be anti big government in a very Socialist or Marxist way. The definitely distinct line has been drawn between the upper class, mindlessly entertained, over the top fashionista, Capitol folks and the poverty stricken, hard working, oppressed 'American.' The social commentary may shuffle out constructively, but I have a feeling it won't.

I have asked several people who have watched the movie if they liked it...I've gotten the same response several times. "Yeah, it was good...it followed the book really well." ........."and??" I think to myself.....anything else? That's all you got from the movie was that it followed the book pretty well. What about ALL of the other discussable world view points?

Anyway, that's just my take. Take it or leave it. No harm done if you liked the movie...although if you did, I'd love it if you left a comment to explain why so I can understand the craze a bit better.

For now, I'm pretty disgusted.

Monday, April 9, 2012

Easter Weekend 2012

Easter weekend 2012 was so wonderful! We headed up Hwy 77 to I-35 for the 5 hour drive to Boyd...it sometimes amazes me how often we actually make this drive, but its always worth it. We arrived Thursday night in time to go to bed and slept in on Friday. Most of the day Friday we just hung out with Derrick's brother, Austin playing video games and basketball and 4 wheeling and playing with the new border collie pup, Hondo. Mostly just a day of relaxing.

On Saturday, we got up at a decent hour and headed to Bowie which is about 45 minutes away for Bowie Trade Days which is basically a mini-Canton. Several acres of booths with livestock, poultry, crafts, junk, furniture, food, etc etc. After coming off of Warrenton/Round Top weekend, we just expected to wander and not buy. The Ratliffs were trying to find some semi-grown ducks to use to help train Hondo. Well we stumbled across a trailer FULL of dog beds, some of which I recognized as Kong brand from Petsmart even though the tags had been removed. We asked the guy how much and he said "$20." Heck yes! We bought two...a dark red and chocolate brown one for our dogs. We then wandered on and came across a really cute cap for me. Then, we found this guy who was making furniture out of barnwood. They only wanted $15 for a beautiful bedside table. We bought 2! Then we found a guy with fruit trees and plants and he sold us 4 thornless blackberry plants for $4 each....we scored!! All of that for < $100! Then Derrick's parents treated us to a hamburger (for me), corn dog (for Derrick), and fresh squeezed lemonade. I definitely got my first farmer's tan of the summer, darn it! But it was a totally fun and relaxing day.

Saturday evening, Logan and Kelly came in from Houston and Linda cooked homemade pizza and lasagna and garlic bread for everyone which was delish. We then settled in to watch "We Bought a Zoo" which was really good and heartwarming!

Sunday morning, the alarm went off dark and early. 6am we were up and running preparing for the sunrise service hosted on the Ratliff property. Linda had been up since 3 baking biscuits and making sausage and gravy and setting up tables and chairs etc etc so I can't complain about 6! We lit the bonfire on the hill about 6:30 and waited for everyone to arrive. The service was short but sweet and then the eating continued....the service is also understood as a breakfast potluck and oh my goodness were there cinnamon rolls and sausage rolls and biscuits and gravy and fruit and juice and hot chocolate and so much more! Logan & Austin played biscuit football after everyone left and we got some great pics of some of my favorite people in the whole wide world.
Pre-Service
This pic is kinda scary lookin, but for some reason I really like it :)
Biscuit football!
Post-Service. Love these guys!
We then went home and napped til it was time to get up and get cleaned up for Nanny's Easter. And the food continued........ugh! It was all so awesome! For lunch we had, BBQ brisket, chicken, ham, mac n cheese, mashed potatoes, corn, baked potatoes, biscuits, and then like 6 different dessert options...and of course candy. Wow! I got full typing all of that again. All of the grandkiddos were there and the kids got to hunt Easter eggs...well kind of. Somehow a boiled egg had gotten dumped into the plastic egg bag last year and it ruined all of the eggs! So they ended up hunting candy and one prize egg each :)

All cleaned up and napped up
The stinky eggs haha!
Nanny's crew! All the grandkids & great grandkids!
Easter Eggs!
Austin's prize egg!
A little cameo shout out to Hondo! The Ratliffs new border collie pup!

Geese! Yes....Goosies!

So much has happened since I last blogged...durn the fact that blogging takes so much time and effort! I'll just start with current stuf...